About Hayden

Although I didn’t know it at the time, this was the beginning of my life’s work. However, it would take a relocation to the other side of the planet and several failed corporate career attempts before I could own my truth of becoming a Spiritual Teacher, Wellness Coach and Colour Therapist.

Six years ago, I launched Dreemtime Academy, a space where I give overwhelmed women permission to explore and rediscover their inner wisdom so they can live life with more joy and purpose.

It wasn’t always like this though…

MY MAGENTA AWAKENING

Some people may call it a ‘mid-life crisis’ but I prefer the term ‘midlife awakening.’ 
It’s all still shrouded in a bit of a stigma as nobody likes to feel out of control but can you answer honestly if you have had yours yet…?

I hadn’t been very happy for a few years in my corporate career as a Business Manager for an IT Recruitment Company in Perth but it was what I’d been doing for years and it had become my life.

As a self-identified ‘Beta-Generation Indigo’, a typical personality trait is to question authority. My moods kept fluctuating and I was becoming increasingly angry and resentful, more and more critical of those in power. Ironically from the surface, everything looked to be going extremely well. I was at the top of my game and well respected in the industry.

Fortunately, I woke up.

My Soul Urge carries the colour frequencies lilac and violet, the number 13 otherwise known as Transformation Pluto. This relates to Scorpio which is the sign of death and regeneration. It symbolises the ability to go through the dark night of the soul and come out stronger. It relates to the phoenix rising out of the ashes and being reborn. These colours signify the releasing of grief so that it might be used as service to the world. It’s a time to let the world see the new you.

Taking a ‘leap of faith’ isn’t easy. It can feel at times like you are bordering on insanity because you are letting go of all familiarity, everything which you have accepted as being real and secure up to that point in time. Despite this, you also recognise that there is no alternative as your old way of existing has been outgrown and no longer serves your highest good or those closest to you.

During the build-up to d-day I had been asking myself the question “What would I do if I knew I couldn’t fail?” and the only thing kept coming back to me was to ‘Work with colour’. Needless to say, I had absolutely no idea what that even meant let alone on how to act upon it. Sure enough, the clues were provided one by one as the story unravelled and as each door began to open I decided to step through them fearlessly and as I did so my emotions started transforming and my direction became clearer.

I would describe it a bit like consciously creating your identity, like a caterpillar metamorphosing into a radiant butterfly and freeing itself from a cocoon. Things that have been created along the way have to be released such as homes, friendships, career choices and even your health and only those things that resonate on the same frequency with your life purpose will remain intact. Fortunately my partner and family have come along for the ride and not once have they lost faith in me.

Leading up to another relocation, I was almost subconsciously preparing myself for the next chapter. My weight dropped 10kg at the gym, I had an operation on my mouth (to heal the truth I had been suppressing), I moved temporarily to a different company whilst the old one mysteriously folded, our house sold in 2 weeks for well above the asking price and I was guided to learn all about the Australian Bush Flower Essences.

Religiously consuming the Silver Princess Essence for life purpose and direction and discovering the soul mission of my Ruling Number 9 and the other intricacies of my birth chart, I intuitively yet nervously decided to qualify as an Advanced Practitioner of Australian Bush Flower Essences and Pythagorean Numerology to accompany my previous experience as a Reiki Master so I could continue my life as a Spiritual Teacher and Coach.

The rest is history. I am now enjoying a much more rewarding and meaningful expression of life. The joy I get from helping people is unmeasurable and whilst I miss the security of a regular corporate salary, we always seem to have more than enough. I call it my transition to magenta as it blends the colour red of the material world of corporate survival to the violet world of spiritual leadership.

HINDSIGHT…

Hindsight is a funny thing. We tend to forget the challenges we have encountered along the way and as we look back from where we are now it is evident how far we have come in a relatively short period of time.

I would encourage anyone who has experienced empty feelings emanating from deep within to investigate the incredible tools we have available and start living your own truth. It isn’t a bed of roses but ask yourself what is the alternative?

We have all been affected by all sorts of different global and astrological transitions that are part of the ascension of humanity. To put it simply we are no longer resonating with the earth’s electromagnetic energy fields, our DNA is changing through new light emissions and we are being forced into either waking up or being left behind.